Elaine wants to be proud of what she has done as a caregiver.
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And I want to feel proud of how I look after him. When I’m crabby and miserable, he’s upset. And does that make our day easy? No, it makes it 10 times harder. So if I keep and, what I think is, I’m trying to be kind to him every day and I find if I’m kind in every aspect of caregiving, in every aspect of just living with him, my day goes much nicer and so does his. So, I keep that first and foremost. If I wake up and I’m kind of had a bad night and I think “Okay, I’m going to be kind, I’m going to do my best today,” and so that’s how I made my mind up that I wanted to look back on.
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